One of the most frightening parts of child custody arrangements is that they do occur when a relationship has broken down. But, because there are children involved who adore both parents, it's not as simple as severing ties and never seeing the person again.
If you have young child/children, you are likely to see the other person every week, if not on a regular basis. So, if at all feasible, make sure that any child custody arrangements are negotiated with as little friction as possible between the two sides.
Your children will no doubt already have felt the hatred between the two of you because any breakup is usually preceded by arguments, disputes, and raised voices. And children inevitably get caught up in the negative energy of all that.
Hence when you have finally decided to separate, it becomes an excellent opportunity to start building bridges again and start to forge a new relationship with them. Clearly, this is never going to be the same loving relationship that it once was, but there is no justification for thinking that it could not be friendly, at least in front of the children.
To pull this off, you may well have to set aside feelings of hurt and anger that you have previously directed towards them. Understandably, this may not be easy, but you need to become a bigger person and set aside those feelings as best you can.
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